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So my son (7 yrs old...also have daughter, 5 yrs) want's a Wii U for Christmas. I want to get it for him but I really need the help of knowledgeable people in this forum:

BACKGROUND
I'm pretty tech savvy. I have an excellent grasp of personal technology, PCs, TiVo/ReplayTV, GPS, iOS Devices, Palm Devices, Digital Photography, Home Automation, Biometrics (FitBit, Zeo, Withings Scale), Home Theater. I'll be hooking the Wii U up to my 60 in plasma.

I know NOTHING about gaming consoles. I intended to buy a Wii ages ago but have been waiting for a hi def Wii console.

So here goes:

1. First, any reason NOT to get the deluxe wii U?

2. What OTHER things do I need besides the deluxe console Wii U package? (other controllers, adapters, chargers). There are 4 of us including my wife. What implications does that have for other gear I need?

I know there are many kinds of controllers...WiiMote, WiiMote & Nunchuk, GameCube Controller, and Classic Controller. I've seen some that are shaped like steering wheels and some called "remote PLUS". I also saw the "Wii U Pro Controller"

So, EXACTLY what would you suggest I get in the way of controllers to support the whole family of four...

3. What tips can you give me so that I have a smooth experience on Christmas morning

4. What games should I buy for kids? (I'm not getting any games for me but need at least 1 for daughter and son each, no old, non hi def games, no adult violent ones.)

I was thinking....obviously get what comes in the box plus...

Mario (family)
Sports Connection (for son)
Just Dance 4 (for daughter)


PLEASE HELP I am desperate and hate being so ignorant when I'm usually VERY in the know...